FWB 3 little initials, Much Misunderstood, Hard to find! Something many of us would love to have. A person we get along with and like who respects our current situation like we respect theirs. Somebody we can confide in with our deepest sexual desires . Someone with whom we can Explore our desires and needs with, Can we with them. As a person who's married and bisexual A friend with benefits is indeed a fulfillment of what One cannot find in the person with whom they're in a relationship with. And because of circumstances surrounding that relationship It's an Arrangement That can fulfill Large voin one's life. Over the years I have talked to many people In different venues on the Internet and in person who seeks such an arrangement but find it so difficultt fulfill. In large part because when they put it out there the only word that seen is benefits. The friends part, the actual relationship isn't what they're seeking, What they are often looking for is instant gratification for the moment. A friend with benefits is deeper than a friend. In all actuality it's what we should have in a marriage but all too often we don't. Leaving us Feeling unsatisfied and unable to convey our needs to the very one who should be meeting those needs For fear of judgment and loss of family And friends. The one who we should be able to confide our deeper secrets too would often be the 1 to betray us with the loudest voice. I've had the benefit over the years of having both women and men who shared with me And what we both needed. Relationships that I will always treasure But which have ended for whatever circumstances life had put in our way. If you read this through I want you to consider those 3 initials and what they truly mean.