This is a shared husband/wife account, husband's POV, and fairly new(ish) to start posting to reddit.

We have been together since my wife was 16, and I was 18. That was in 1993. We had been with others before we met, so we weren't virgins or anything. Although I was the first guy that she ever gave a blowjob to. Lol. We met the first guy and had our first hotwife experience back in like 2002(ish). At that point, we had already been together almost 10 years. She was around 26, and I was around 28. We had so, so, so much fun.. did I mention that we had a LOT of fun? Time flies. This all originally came to light with me, and my "kink" of it after I had a dream about her fucking another guy. I don't know what snapped/changed overnight, but for the first 10 years I was always pretty jealous and would had never even had a thought of another guy touching my wife. The dream I had was an actual wet dream. I literally came in my sleep dreaming about her fucking this guy in front of me. I was emberassed and ashamed. The dream kept recurring for quite some time until I couldn't take waking up hard or wet anymore and I broke down and told her about it. I really initially thought I was a very sick person until I researched and found out how many other men had the same fantasy/kink. My wife originally thought everything I was telling her was possibly a "ploy" to fuck other women, which it definitely, definitely wasn't. So...The very first time we had a MFM, we drove 3.5 hours south of where we lived at that time for a "one time thing". He was the first guy we had decided to meet after talking about trying it for 2 years, talking to him for like 2 months on a daily basis, and we finally decided to meet him at a hotel in his area which was Des Moines, Iowa. No pressure, and definitely no expectations. We told him in the very beginning when we first started talking all about our situation, and he knew going in that we/she may not be able to go through anything besides talking, drinks, & playing cards. When we got to the hotel we called him and told him we arrived. He said he would be right over for drinks and we met him in the lobby. The guy was built like a fucking tank (bodybuilder type) and "fucking hot" according to my wife. We had a couple drinks at the bar in the hotel, and we had a "look" that we just knew if either of us wanted things to "proceed" or if we didnt want things to go further than that. I think we might of had a yes/no code word too if I recall correctly. Regardless, the guy was very respectful to me, and I wasn't ever disrespected, left out of conversation, etc. He was very nice to both of us. We both were comfortable, and after maybe an hour in the bar I said something like "would you like to come up to our room for some cards?" I'm pretty sure at that point he KNEW because of this: We had been joking a lot between the 3 of us and laughing, and as we walked past the reception desk the guy looks at the receptionist and said "Hold all calls." That was pretty funny!! We will NEVER forget that. The lady looked at us (the guys), then looked at her like damn your lucky! Haha. We got up to our room, and we started drinking again, and pulled out the playing cards and started to play some dumb game like rummy or something like that. We wanted a good "buzz" going from alcohol and to loosen us up a bit. We knew not to get drunk or anything like that and end up doing something we regretted. As we were playing cards, our 3-way conversation between the 3 of us turned sexual with stuff like what turned guys on. My wife and I had been "coding" each other and I knew what we both wanted. The subject of lingerie came up, and that's when I said something like " ***** (Wife's name) has some lingerie she packed. Would you like to see how she looks in it?" He then said "of course I would". My wife then said she would go change in the bathroom and would be right back. Something like 5 minutes went by and she wasn't back out. I started to get worried and checked on her and she was just sitting there, extremely nervous. Like shaking nervous. I told her that if she wanted to call it off she could. She said it was just nerves and she was ok. She says to this day if there would of been a window in the bathroom she would of jumped out of it. (Jokingly of course). She came out and thebither guy and I were staring of course. She sat on the end of the bed in her little black outfit showing enough of her ass, and we could see she had a g-string thong on. I went to the bed, sat beside her and started kissing and making out with her. The other guy just sat at the table in our room watching for about 5 minutes until I waved him over. He came on the bed with us and he started kissing her neck. She was very wet at this point and I knew thungs were safe. I won't get into ALL of the details, but seeing her climb onto him as he was laying on his back and guiding his cock into her pussy, and the hearing the moan come out of her.. OMG. I almost blew my load instantly just hearing it, let alone witnessing it. She orgasm'd pretty fast, but she kept going because I hadn't came and neither had the other guy. We took turns rubbing her all over body, licking/kissing her, fingering her, took turns getting sucked, while the other guy was fucking her, etc. Towards the end she was sucking me and moaning as she was bent over getting fucked doggy. The only "weird" part of the entire escapade was that when he was about to cum, he pulled out, and kind of motioned for her to lay on her back. She did, and then I put my dick in her mouth as he removed the condom started to finish himself on her. Out of nowhere he blurts out "I have to see myself cum". lol. He them blew his load on her stomach, pussy, and leg. I had blown like twice in her mouth by then. I started kissing her as she was motioning her finger in swirls through his cum. So fucking HOT! Anyway, he then went to the restroom and washed himself up and came out and started getting dressed. We then did the same, and he said hia goodbye & left. We discussed everything after and we both loved it. We were just a bit disappointed he left right away after, but in all fairness, we did tell him this was going to be a one time thing. My wife to this day says he was definitely the best looking (or in her words he was "hot as fuck" and the best looking guy that we met and she fucked (besides me of course.. yea, right!) Haha. We then realized we both loved it so much that we decided we wanted to find a "regular" nearby. That was like in 2002(ish). We then found 1 guy we met about once every 2 weeks and seen him for 2 years until he decided to go back to the military. The next guy after him we seen for about 3 years until he moved. The last guy we seen for about 3 years until he found a serious gf and married her. It was sooooo fucking hot.... after a few months of regular mfm's, she would then play alone if she and I were comfortable. I would leave and he would come over and we still have much video of them having fun alone. Since then, we moved 3.5 hours north and haven't really looked. We started a tinder acct in 2017, until someone from our small town recognized her so we deleted everything off the internet. We want to start again, but our oldest "child" won't move out and is way way way too nosey. We want this "child" to move out. Lol. We say as long as there is open honest communication and trust, go for it!! It definitely spiced up our sex life. Significantly. We have been together 33 years now and she is 48 and I am almost 50. We will find another guy sometime. Hopefully sooner than later.