So my husband and I started into this lifestyle about 3 1/2 years ago. We’ve had some great experiences. Literally none have been repeats. All have said they want long term. Seems as though once we meet someone, we have a great time together, great convo, experience, etc. Everyone ghosts after. Some do it immediately. Some wait for a few days. There is no friendship (which I make very clear that it’s important to us), no communication and clearly no aftercare. They always say “this was great, can I see you again?” Some have asked multiple times. They appear to be very into me and the connection we had. Always say they think I’m pretty/stunning/gorgeous. (Their words not mine) I don’t pull any punches. I know what I want and I ask for it. So it’s not that they don’t know we are looking for a long term consistent guy. What gives??? Is this a common thing for this LS? I’m about done with it all just because of these very poor specimens that make this absolutely exhausting. Help a girl out….