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[21][M4F][London][UK] - looking to take someone on a date and see where it goes
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carpetcleaner92 is a male age 21 looking for a female in United Kingdom
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Hello, I have spent a while looking through these posts and have realised that this may be seen as desperate however, I’m just at a loss.

During my teenage years I was a big lad, I have spent time working on myself but unfortunately the mental remanence of being this size has always stayed. I’ve lost over 30kg in the past year, focused on personal wellbeing and have really felt my confidence come back.

I’m very happy with all of my life but haven’t quite figured out how to talk to women, I have this constant anxiety that I am ugly and not worthy.

It’s really hard to get past this. And that’s what has lead me here…

I’m looking for someone likeminded and interested in music, travelling and communication. I’d like to take someone on a date and get to know them because tinder etc is not for me.

If things lead to things, I’m not complaining but I would really appreciate some support in this domain as I seriously can’t figure it out, I just constantly feel like a loser to be honest.

I’ve just turned 21 and for some reason it’s really bothering me now, it really does make you think after a while that something is wrong with you.

Anyone with any tips would be great, I’ve found it really challenging getting past my horrible past body image and getting myself out there, I think with every year this gets a bit worse as my anxiety about it goes through the roof.

I’m aware I’m very much overthinking everything, but that’s who I am. Any help is appreciated, have a good night x

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