Been awhile since I’ve posted but I figured why not try and post again and see what happens. The obvious is I am still a virgin at age 28, being shy has held me back in most things in life but I’d like to think I’ve gotten better at overcoming it over the years with therapy and exercise. I really just want to lose my virginity and be done with this! But I’d like to sort of get to know you first before hand. So I figured maybe I can find someone on here to get to know well and eventually meet with. And with that I put a tiny bit of effort in trying to tell you about myself below.

About me

So anyways here some things about me... I consider myself a hardworking person, I enjoy helping others when I can, its also my job too. I work in Information Technology for a University, so computers are my expertise. I worked for a nonprofit for a couple of years beforehand. I live pretty close to Boston and went there for college. I majored in Computer Science. I love dark humor more than anything, and corny jokes. I'm a bit of a quiet person but open up more when I get to know someone.

For my hobbies I enjoy fitness, painting, reading, music, sports, and video-games. Patriots is my favorite football team like everyone else, but the team is incredibly bad at the moment. And watching TV when I can, currently finishing up The Boys. I go to the gym that’s right next to my work a few days a week. I might be skinny but I am definitely out of shape and not where I want to be right now! Also I sit down most of the day so it helps to be active. I also play games quite a bit on PS5 and on my Nintendo switch, Animal Crossing is my go to right now. I’m always down for a drink or to just hangout and talk.

What I’m looking for

What I’d like to do if you reached out to me is maybe we could message each other for a bit. Then exchange pictures, I understand that mutual attraction is important for some people. Also would prefer you live close by or at least in the state. I’m open to any age as well not a big deal. Just sort of looking ahead in the future we could meet somewhere public first to get to know each other better. Either to get a drink, or just something super easy like a walk in the park. And take it from there when you’re comfortable. I completely respect boundaries and expect the same. Also I’ll be happy to answer any questions you might have too.

What I look like

So now a short summary about what I look like... I am 165Ibs, 5'11 in height, white/ mixed, dark hair, hazel eyes, and have a short beard. Looks wise I am average. I get compliments on my eyes every now and then. No one can seem to guess my ethnicity either. Not the best way to paint a picture but maybe that will change later if we happen to see each other?

I hope I caught your attention. Send me a message or Reddit chat about yourself if you're seriously interested. I also have discord if you prefer that too. Thanks.