Hey there.

Last post got removed cos I put Ipswich/London in the title. I meant that I am happy to go to London as Ive grown up in the Elephant and Castle/Pekcham area and are more then happy to travel there.

I'll start by saying I've not really got any idea what to put in here so I'm going to go with a bit of everything to hopefully pique your interested.

About me:

I am a 26 year old Caucasian (white) male. I'm 5 foot 10 tall and weigh around 98 KG. I am a bit on the chubby/curvy whatever side. But since the new years I have lost about 15kg since I actually started to go to the gym. I am bald with a goatee and I have brown eyes and wear glasses. Overall I would so my appearance is fairly average for a balde. I'm Polish and currently live in Ipswich but I have lived in London since I was 8, in the SE postcode area. I also went to uni in Cochester (Uni of Essex) for 4 years between the age of 18-22.

My personality and interests:

I would at a top level describe myself as an introverted extrovert. So basically I can be shy when first getting to know people but once the initial introductions are over I'm much more chatty. I certainly used to be much quieter but since uni I have really developed and improved. It defiantly helped that I lived with 12 others in my first year, and all of them were people who were really social and loved to drink and go out on the weekends. They really helped to get me out of my shell. Before uni I have never even drunk a drop of alcohol. Now my poison is whisky! (Also as good a place as any in my waffling to say I'm 420 friendly) Like most people my age I enjoy hanging out with friends for food, drinks and often visit different cities around the UK with them. I work as a software developer in the finance industry and like my job but it does keep me busy during the week (9 - 6). On the weekends I like to play video games (Helldivers, CS, ect) and binge netflix / anime shows. I also make it a goal to go at least 3 times a week to the gym and do at least an hour of cardio mixed with light weight training (I'm not interested in getting swole, just wonna loose my belly and build confidence). Outside of that I love listening to music. I think my spottily is the only subscription I would not be able to live without.

Why am I posting here?

I'm posting here because when I was younger 16 to 23 i wasn't very confident (cheers abusive dad) and never really got that close with any women. University changed a lot for me and certainly came out a better person but one thing I decided to put off was trying to have sexual encounters. My concern for the last year now has been that I see myself at an age where most people have experience and I don't. This makes me a bit self conscious when chatting on tinder / hinge and going one dates as I fear if it leads anywhere I'm going to embarrass myself at some point by being clueless. So I'm posting here not because I want to "just lose it" but instead want to get a bit of experience and an idea of what I'm doing.

What am I looking for?

Of course I've got my ideal scenario / situation I'm looking for but I'm also realistic everyone is on here for their own agendas and we will have to find a mutual middle ground that meets both our desires.

My ideal situation is someone in same situation as myself who has no / limited experience (just because I think that makes it less awkward in my head I guess). Would like to have some chemistry whilst chatting and if all works out gain some experience together from a meet or two (if all goes well). My perfect situation is someone who wants to meet more than once as that will grant more experience and time to chat about how it went ect.

That's my ideal but even if that isn't exactly what you have in mind still get in touch and let's chat. I'm not fixed on it. I also do not mind your age / race / body type, but the closer to my age you are the better (again, makes it less awkward in my head I guess).

If you are someone who has experience but is willing to help someone learn I'm also not against that since you know my position. Only thing I would say I'm not interested in is any couples or males. I am looking for a single woman.

I am happy to host. I live in Ipswich in a house share with 3 others, but they are out of the house working / doing their own thing most of the time so it feels like I have the house to myself most of the time. I am also happy to book a hotel somewhere between us or travel and meet you somewhere (in the UK).

I think that covers all the basics, if you want to know more drop me a message.

Happy to exchange pictures in DMs.

If you made it this far well done. Drop me your favorite emoji in your message? Appreciate you taking the time to read this, as it became longer than I expected.