Hello. Exactly what the title says. This May my birthday month, wish for comfort and trust in intimacy, why seeking a friend with benefits. Can be your friend, just benefits, or in between. Or a one night situation with either another virgin or a non-virgin sympathetic to my cause.

I'm 35 years old (soon 36), single white male, 5'8'' tall, 220 lb, an average body type, between fit and chubby. Living on NW side Chicago, near Portage Park, drug disease free, sane, a liberal Christian, a pet lover, and ready to answer any and all questions. Including exchange pictures to prove you and I are real and interested in each other.

Concerning interests, have recently seen the new Dune movies and Oppenheimer. A big fan of Breaking Bad, and Better Call Saul, some love for manga and anime such as One Piece and Solo Leveling, and love recent trending music such as Kendrick Lamar besting Drake with his diss tracks. Also, into writing poems and stories, currently writing a novel one chapter at a time.

Life story summed up, younger years, lost parents to cancer. Inherited care of family mid college, missed out on life since then, trying to catch up. And to add to this, a couple years ago, lost my pet, almost lost another family member from that. Last year, had a woman interested, but never met cause they were too far away and not enough time to make the trip. For this reason, important you're close by either in city or suburbs so we can meet. Please NOT be located halfway across Illinois or the Midwest requiring cash to meet me. Had this scam too many times, and if reply as such, I will block and report you. Yes, have to include this obvious response in post because this happened so much in the past where have to speak up.

Personal feelings are getting older, approaching 40, know pursuit of intimacy not be all, end all, but to never succeed either cause I care for disabled doesn't feel right. Look at posts where people try hard, or not enough, and like to believe worth your time cause a normal guy that know how important the act is, and don't take for granted how special it is.

The woman I hope replies shares my interests and vibe, has personality, be age appropriate/close to my age/21 and above, be local as explained above, and not be bored by this much text. Ideally, be willing to be with each other out of fun and curiosity. If interested, please DM me, would love to chat, get know each other. Chat over the next few days to weeks, then meet in person and see how we meet. Thank you for your time, and enjoy your day/night.