I'm honestly tired of being the only person I know who's still a virgin. I have always believed that if I was patient and stayed true to what I believe then I would eventually find the right girl and it would make the wait worth it. Every year that goes by, every birthday, every conversation with my friends and family it just keeps weighing on my mind more and more. I keep asking myself the same questions. Questions like, "why haven't I found her yet, is there something wrong with me?" Or, "am I not trying hard enough?" And, "am I looking in the wrong places?" I suck at socializing, I spend my free time keeping to myself because I just wouldn't even know where to start with trying to meet new people and find a girlfriend.
So, with that spiel out of the way, let's get to what I'm hoping to find. Obviously, I'd like to give someone my V card. I don't really care at this point whether or not we form an emotional connection. I just want to experience it at least once and to be able to say that I did it. However, there are a couple requirements that I do need to bring up:

1. Hygiene - I can't stand dirty people, I take care of myself so I'd expect the same from you.
2. Foreplay - I don't just want to jump right into it and be done in 2 minutes, I want to spend time experiencing everything as much as possible and try to enjoy it as much as I can.
3. Aftercare - Just because we don't have an emotional connection doesn't mean we should be inconsiderate of each other's feelings and needs.
4. Protection - Non-negotiable
5. Verification - I will go out of my way to prove that I am who I say I am and expect the same from you, this way neither of us feels like we are being tricked.

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Other than that, there really isn't anything else that I would consider a deal breaker. As for me, I'm a 5'7, 135 lb, white, brown eyed, black haired nerd. I play video games in my free time, I love cars, anime, blasting loud music, and trying new things. I consider myself a switch who likes it rough but we'll see how true that is. I do have some kinks that I am interested in but that's something I'll talk about only if we end up liking each other enough for me to trust you with that stuff. I'm an introvert and pretty shy at first. I believe in being honest and loyal and if you want me to like you I expect the same in return. As for you, there's not a whole lot that would be considered a turn-off for me other than being grossly overweight. I guess my age limit would be 35 but if we are attracted to each other I honestly don't care. https://imgur.com/a/dUi6j4Y here's what I look like. Please include your ASL and a photo in your message, thanks. As long as this post is up, I haven't found who I'm looking for and would love to hear from you!