UPDATE: Due to last minute changes, I will not be traveling to visit family this Thanksgiving and will be local to Philly just winging it that day. I have had some nice people contact me since I last posted but no one close by so figured I would re-post again today since I had some time off in my schedule this week. Below is the original message and I hope everyone finds what they are looking for!

This is probably the most awkward post I have ever made and not sure how to start but here goes.

I spent most of my early years working multiple jobs and just never thought about losing my virginity much. Part of this is because I've always been busy with work and my career and part of it is because I've always been told I am attractive throughout the years and just thought it would happen by now.

While I still look young and have been on dates before, I'm in my 30's now and not getting any younger so decided to post instead of continuing to leave it to fate.

Some of my hobbies include exercising, anime, gaming, and kpop. You do not have to share the same hobbies and just thought I would throw that out there in case you wanted to know more about me.

For what I'm looking for, not to be too picky but, I want my first time to be with someone I find physically attractive also. My definition of attractive is pretty conventional so, if you were ever told you could be a model or you get too much unwanted attention on a regular basis and you think we would be a good match, feel free to send me a message.

Hoping to change my status this year with someone that is understanding and I am open to females without experience also. We can figure it out together.

Anyway, hope everyone is finding what they are looking for and hope to talk soon!

Edit: I am verified on this subreddit and will ask that you verify eventually also before we meet up. This could be a simple DM with you holding your username on a sheet of paper without showing your face. If you're fake, please save us both time.

I am in no rush and if this post is still up, I am still looking. Please message with some basics about yourself such as age, ethnicity, and if you are local to Philly or not for a reply. I drive and being local is not a requirement but please remember to include the basics mentioned to save some time. Thanks!