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[30][M4F][Canterbury][UK] Looking to gain some confidence and lose V
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SickFeelingSucks is a male age 30 looking for a female in United Kingdom
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Hi All!

About me.

  • Age: 30
  • Gender: Male
  • Color: White
  • Height: 5ft 5"
  • Weight: 8 and a half stone / 54KG~
  • Hair: Brown
  • Eyes: Blue
  • Penis: 7" ( or - 0.5", Uncut but clean!)
  • Location: Whitstable/Herne Bay, UK (Near Canterbury)
  • COVID Status: Vaccinated (Quad)

I'm very patient, kind, considerate and understanding of others especially those in similar situations. I've been told that I'm funny, cute, sweet, caring and honest which I think are pretty good compliments!

I love my food especially if it involves cheese! I'm a fairly good cook but wish I knew how to cook more things! A good meal makes me very happy! My favourite foods would be bacon, cheese, chocolate, carbonara, roast potatoes/jacket potatoes and a good steak! I'm a sucker for a BBQ!

I'm pretty good with DIY but I'm not afraid of asking for help, getting an expert in or spending time to learn how to do something. I love technology and am naturally very good with it!

I love relaxing with a good movie or TV show especially if paired with a good meal! I also watch a few different sports, love watching comedies and enjoy documentaries now and again.

I enjoy going for walks and enjoy all sorts of activities, there's also loads of activities that I'm interested in but my confidence sometimes stops it from going beyond an interest.

I love playing all sorts of games be that cards, board games, computer games... Etc.

I'm fairly close with my family and a few cousins even though to them they may not think it because I don't really show my emotions/feelings.

I love others teaching me things, especially things they are interested in! It makes me feel all funny inside and just love it when others share their passions!

Unfortunately I lack some confidence and suffer with some anxiety so it takes me a little while to become comfortable with someone and come out of my shell however when I do people seem to get on with me and like me as a person which feels awesome.

I'm interested in pushing myself, trying new things and growing as a person!

Posting again...

I am posting again because I didn't find any success last time I posted

What I am looking for..

I would love to find a nice and friendly girl who is willing to help me lose my virginity.

I don't mind if it's a one time thing but of course I would prefer something that could be recurring as it would be a good thing for my confidence and I don't really want someone to screw me for my virginity and then ditch me but hey it is what it is...

I have zero experience which is incredibly embarrassing to admit, so I would prefer someone who is willing to take a bit of control of the situation but I understand both can be nervous. If you have zero experience like me then at least we are both in the same boat!

I am willing to go down on you out but just give me some guidance and tell me what works and what doesn't.

I would prefer if you were also a virgin so that we can't understand eachother more but it's not a requirement!

You might be wondering why I haven't had sex...

I've always struggled with anxiety and confidence issues bright on by a lot of trauma growing up, in my teens and also early 20s which caused my anxiety and confidence to spiral out of control, making it even harder to approach girls, mixing my work and the anxiety/confidence meant I became even more reclusive and lonely.

I've had some great conversations and "online friendships" over the last few years with girls around the world on various apps, on /r/R4R and other subreddits and thankfully everyone enjoyed my personality, eventually we shared pictures of ourselves and the majority gave me a lot of compliments, showed confusion with the fact I'm still a virgin so I don't think there's anything wrong with me visually or with my personality just lack confidence!

Ideal meet?

My ideal meet is actually a little unusual, but hear me out! The situation is to try and reduce my anxiety by not giving my brain time to overthink things and worry.

After getting to know each other a little and you realise that I am not a serial killer, catfisher or anything like that. I would love to meet in a somewhat private setting, I don't mind going for a walk or something like that but ideally would like to avoid most people. Obviously I would want us to both feel safe and comfortable!

I'd prefer us to skip the small talk and get down to it pretty much straight away to stop me from having time to become more anxious but I realise that might not be ideal, I'm okay starting slow, maybe starting with foreplay and/or oral.

I am obviously disease free (no STIs), honestly for my first time I would prefer to not use condoms but for this you would need to be on contraception and also know for certain you're disease free too!

Hosting?

I can host at my place, but not all the time as I have a housemate. I would prefer to host as I would likely feel way less anxious. I'm also okay with you hosting, us getting a hotel/AirBnB or even having sex in a private setting.

Drop me a message!

Thanks for reading :)

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