TL;DR: Married guy, looking for emotionally intelligent and stable BBW for hotel play (have a room tonight through Friday morning at The Virginian in Lynchburg) ideally for an ongoing basis - I regularly travel to Lynchburg for work.

About me: 5’8”, 38 years old. I’m a chubby guy, but I’m improving. Consistent at the gym for a year, working on me. I’m bearded , glasses most of the time. I’m kind and thoughtful, reasonably intelligent. I think I have a good personality, not a dick, and hopefully am decently attractive. Went to grad school, have a good career and a stable life. I will make you laugh.

The long version:
I’m hoping this connects with the right person - someone in my level, looking for passion without drama, discretion and a mutual understanding of where we’re at.

I’ve been here before. I’ve had an affair that broke my heart in the end. I’ve had endless attempts to remedy things at home. She’s wonderful - a good person, a good mom. But the bedroom has been dead since literally the wedding night, and we’re just not a match on any form of intimacy.

I’m high libido, high romance. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours, but still looking for feelings and being on your priority list. Being each other’s AP’s, we know we aren’t each other’s number one priority, but I want you to feel prioritized, and I want as well. I’ll put in the effort, and expect you to as well.

I’m not looking to change either of our situations, so discretion is a must.

I want messages throughout the day, teases and flirtations. I want to know what you’re daydreaming about and what you’re wearing. Tell me about your morning coffee and your asshole coworker. When I'm in town, let me bring you that coffee and sneak a taste off your kiss.

We have lives to manage and everyday family, careers and kids. But in the in between, the time we carve, I want you. I want to be consumed with thoughts of you, I want you to be a little dizzy with head buzz from it all.

I enjoy going to concerts (often alone), love a good craft beer, and in the right responsible situation, really enjoy a few gummies or a hit of the pen, albeit fairly occasional. Happy to share.

I read regularly, listen to the news voraciously, and spend lots of time outdoors.

If you’re interested, I want to chat! Send me a message and we’ll go from there.

It can be chill - drinks at the hotel bar, see if we have a connection.