34 (M) bi, 29 (f) curious. Happily married couple looking to explore adding another (bi/heteroflexible) M to the mix. Looking for a 🦄 so read the whole thing before you reply.

• NO one night stands
• Not a bull/cuck situation
• Not looking for attached men
• Age 22-42
• Not chasing some “hung fantasy”

Wife and I are talking about 3somes and are potentially looking for a 3rd but looking for a FWB situation with the emphasis on FRIENDS. We want to actually get to know/get comfortable with a person first. Looking for someone I (M) can hang out with, grab a drink, get to know that would eventually turn in to board games, bon fires etc. at our place; who would be open to blurring boundaries if it happened without it being an expectation. If this sounds like something you’d be interested and we can exchange some pics and plan to grab a drink sometime - but not looking for pic collectors or flakes.

If looks matter we are both white, wife is 5’3” HWP with thick thighs and a thick ass (pics in profile) and I am 5’10” rocking a dad bod a little on the huskier side but trying to drop some of the pandemic weight.

Just want to make sure that it is VERY CLEAR this isn’t going to be something that happens overnight. We have not had a 3some before and it’s super important for both of us to be comfortable and have a connection with whoever ends up being the 3rd, it’s equally important that the 3rd feels comfortable as well - we don’t want anyone feeling left out or used.

We want to make sure that we are upfront that right now, we am looking to make more guy friends for him, who can come hang without their being pressure for it to turn in to anything more. We don’t want to waste anyones time.

If you’ve made it this far and are gonna send a DM - put your favorite movie in your first message.