Hi,

Pair of friends in our late 30's/early 40's here. He's a bi cis male, she's a straight cis female. Both very switchy with hipsterish vibes.

We're going to be swinging through toward the end of May to visit family and would like to find another bi male for MMF-esque play. Open to a variety of different dynamics but, due to a variety of reasons that we'll discuss with the right potentials, we're probably going to be looking primarily for situations where our guest is dominant (but thoughtful) in the bedroom. We've done this before during previous visits and had a lot of fun. We've also dealt with a couple of flakes which...sadly, never shocking.

If you're reaching out, be prepared to chat with the both of us a bit over the next month (primarily on a space like Kik) and be willing to share face pics (we have plenty). Ultimately, the personality match means more than anything and it's important that you're able to clearly articulate what you actually want in the bedroom (please don't waste our time with meaningless replies like "whatever you want") and demonstrate that you're hearing and incorporating our feedback regarding our boundaries, intos, etc. That said, a cute face and/or hung cock won't hurt your chances. Of course, there's going to be a face-to-face vibe check prior to anything actually happening.

Beyond that, please be recently tested, around our age (late 20's-mid 40's), DDF (alcohol and weed are fine), hwp, and excited to give us an idea of what to expect with you in and out of the bedroom. Oh, and we can't emphasize this enough - please actually be bi. The person we play with needs to be into both of us. This isn't an opportunity for a straight guy who's just into a little incidental contact.