I don’t have my life together. I live with my college friend who’s younger, makes triple my salary, owns the house, and has a gf. He’s accomplished and constantly complains about trivial things when never having any real hardships and he’s the first to tell you he’s privileged. He’s 30 in shape and no real health problems.

I’m 32. I’m overweight, have gout, a mid level job, lots of debt, and no gf let alone sex in years. If I complain about how things are going, I’m negative . What’s the point in being positive if good things aren’t gonna happen and good things happen to other negative people? I’m burnt out of this life. I have good things going for me but the big things like financial security and romance are not there for me.