Why is it, when you’re the guy being used as the rebound you’re still the bad guy when you state a boundary? Like, the girl immediately replies with “we wouldn’t have worked out… I just got out of a long relationship…” Yeah, I know, cool, that still doesn’t mean you make plans with someone then bail and not expect them to be like “hey, would have been nice to been told something or gotten a ‘oh shit’ when I brought it up” but instead somehow we’re always disrespectful and expected too much/not on the same page.

This girl I’m in this situation with, I thought we at least respected each other and were enjoying the company, not that I was just an object and nothing more and somehow I’m disrespectful for saying “it wasn’t cool to bail on our plans like you did.”