Today my brother laid a lot on me. He said that he hasnt recovered he lost try to save his new born babies life.

He said that my parents house is in foreclosure. (I did already know this.) He has been living here with his two kids since his divorce, 6 years ago. He said they all need to be out by April fourth.

The house he was going to live with his long term gf's grand mothers house.

The grand mothers caretaker has told them; that the house is a house that they all vist in the summer and they don't want my brother and his kids there.

He went on to tell my about my nieces issues with PTSD. He said because of the abuse inflicted by my brother's ex wife (my nieces mother) has a severe panic attacks, racing thoughts, has threaten to smash her late baby sisters urn. Has been screaming that his gf the mother who lost her child and never should of been a mom. She said that God doesn't want her to have a child.

He explained to me later that he is being sued for several credit cards that his ex wife has put in his name. He has court on Thursday.

He is broken.

That was my day.

I'm wondering how I can help him.

My brother isn't a great guy. He is racist, punches holes in walls, and he enjoys making fun of peoples deepest insecurities.

He has called my Asian wife a truly disgusting word (starts with a ch ands in what's in pens.) I stopped talking to him for a year because of this. He never does anything to help himself. For this reason I know better than to let him in my house.

But I can't help but want to help my brother. He never learned to do for himself and nobody deserves this.

Thanks for reading.