I (25f) and my husband (29m) have been married for almost a year and together for 3. I’ve seen multiple red flags while we were dating but I decided to go through with this marriage anyway because for better or worse I love him. For context my husband was polyamorous before he met me but decided to be monogamous to be in a relationship with me as I would not be ok with that in my life. A few weeks ago I caught him sexting a woman on his phone. I had a complete meltdown, but eventually chose to forgive him because he swore it wouldn’t happen again. Then today as I’m taking a pregnancy test I get a dm from a woman sending screenshots of him sending her nudes. I’m disgusted. I don’t know what to do now that I permanently have a link to him. I’m devastated, I’m hurt, I’m sad and I have no one to turn to hence why I’m here venting to strangers. I just wish things were different but alas this is now my reality.