I don't know how people can raise a kid, fight a custody battle, work full time and try to find any enjoyment in life all at the same time. I'm trying so hard and I just feel like it's all too much. My sons mom doesn't care about him so I have to do everything. She's 46 days past due on his preschool payment for January. She's 15 days past due for February. She still owes me for Health Insurance. She owes the arbitrator $2500 and she is about to pay my legal fees of over $4600. Yet she can get married without our son present. She can buy a house. She can call animal control and lie to force me to give up my dog, who is/was my emotional support animal, or I face criminal charges. I've been nice and could have held her in contempt but because I have a dick, I would be a terrible person just trying to "get back at her". The legal system for father's who give a shit sucks. It's 2024. Moms aren't the end all be all. Father's do well now. I'm his main caretaker and have been. I'm just want what's best for him and to not have her ignore him all the time.