I love my wife however we have no sex life. We have no intimacy. We talked about it and it all ended with the same results. We can’t even kiss because it’s hard for her to breathe. I can’t just turn her on even when I try to do her kinks because she just doesn’t want to do it. She’s more in pain than pleasure. I tried to make it as pleasurable as possible but nothing works. And she told me that she isn’t as turned on a lot because she’s afraid that it’ll be painful but she won’t see anyone (doctors) and I tried to help her through it. But after the last time we did it (which was like the first time in a month) I’m about to just stop being intimate with her.

Back in 2019 we were like rabbits. I told her I wanted us to rekindle like that but neither of us knows what happened. However the only change that I think has to do with this is, we moved out of state back in April and moved back in with her parents so we can save money for a house.