My girlfriend doesn’t want to have sex as often as I would like. My girlfriend and I have been together a little over a year and we live together. When we first got together it felt like we had sex all the time but now it feels like we never do. Personally I would want to have sex, maybe once every few days or a few times a week. But it feels like we only do it once a month, probably exaggerating a bit but that’s how it’s felt recently. I don’t know how to have the conversation because I don’t want to be the asshole that’s only concerned with sex. She doesn’t initiate really ever so I try to initiate as often as I want to but I get denied more than I don’t. It’s very frustrating because I get denied multiple times in a row, I get that lonely, horny feel and then I just resort to porn. Don’t know what to do, don’t want to leave her but also would like more sex in the relationship without it feeling like it’s being forced onto her if she doesn’t want to.