I’m on Mobile and this is my first time posting so i apologize for any formatting issues.

Honestly this has been sitting in my drafts for a few weeks now while I thought on it but I don’t think my girlfriend of 4 years loves me. I don’t even know if this is the right subreddit to post this, i just need to get this off my chest. we’ve been together since our senior year in high school and recently finally found a place we can live together. I love her,I know i want to spend the rest of my life with her. I’ll be honest i don’t say I love you a whole lot but she said it even less then I did, I thought we just showed it and didn’t have to say it, I didn’t have a problem with this. But after a text conversation about moving into an apartment together, I said I love you. She then followed up that text with “Love is such a strong word, Lots of people say they love me and want to move with me”. I truly don’t know what to do, i thought this was the girl I was gonna spend the rest of my life with, but she doesn’t love me? I don’t know.

That was more of a ramble than anything bout I really don’t know how to proceed.