Not sure if this is the correct group for this, but I will throw it out there and let people throw spears if necessary; although suggestions would be more appreciated.

Married 36M36F highly sexual, however she suffers from extreme endometriosis which makes any penetration very painful for her. For years the only way she can climax is with oral stimulation. A few months ago she brought up the idea of us getting a girlfriend because she's always wanted to play with herself while she watches me be with someone else.

We discussed everything in detail and eventually came to the conclusion that her ideal situation would be another female who enjoys performing oral on her while at the same time watching me be sexually intimate with the same female or another.

So far we have had little success for unknown reasons. However, the most common is no shows or very unattractive candidates.

Are we too picky, or are we just asking for too much??