New Unicorn Guide Top 10

Some of my tips are formed with Vegas in mind. Vegas is both a wonderful place but also a place where solo ladies have to keep their wits about them.

1) Find a safe place to park. If possible, use Lyft or Uber. Make sure you are as close to the venue as possible.

2) Call ahead and ask what security is provided to single ladies. At a minimum they should escort you to your car or stand with you until your Uber arrives.

3) Wear something that you can securely conceal your cell phone and protect it from theft or being dropped. Losing your cell phone at a lifestyle party is NO fun at all. If they have lockers, lock it up until you leave.

4) I am in a couple, but I do travel and play at lifestyle clubs with friends so I know what it is like to be a girl at a lifestyle party alone. I have gotten in over my head more than once, so if things don't feel right, retreat. I generally will not go to a party solo where I don't know and trust someone.

5) Arrive early, ask for a tour of the club. Let the bartender know what you are interested in (couple, age, HWP, etc) and she or he will usually help steer a local couple or two your way.

6) Drink only prepackaged beverages. Lots of reasons I suggest this. The big reason is it makes it easier to control your alcohol intake. Once I finish my 4 pack of chardonnay, I know it is a good time to stop. Don't start doing shots. Its easy to over-indulge in a sexually charge environment where you are not feeling 100% confident and comfortable.

7) If you take you eye off your drink, for even a moment, dump it! Dump it now!

8) What to wear; comfortable shoes. Sexy is good, but cocktail sexy is best for your first trip. Club-wear is common, but if you do not normally wear those styles, just wear something you feel comfortable in.

9) You are a unicorn. You can pretty much have your pick of the liter. So don't compromise.

10) Having sex is not important your first trip out. There are so many additional things I would tell you about engaging in recreational sex that won't cover in this top 10.

As always, I cannot seem to stop at 10. So, very important.

11) Make sure you let people know where you are going. You are a solo lady walking into a strange club with strange people.

Be careful. Make sure to check the references of the club before you go. And always ask for an escort to your car.