This is somewhat of a cautionary tale.
When I first sat down to post something this evening, I was going to write another post for the Newbies out there, the title was to be "How to Politely, Safely and Quickly Leave When you Get in Over Your Head". As I was thinking about it, I remembered the time I went to a Thursday Evening Party at a Hotel and got totally freaked out when the host said I had to go into a room naked with a man who was not my husband AND demanded that I go or leave... I left, getting dressed as I was walking (quickly) down the hallway. Welcome to Vegas...
GREAT CLUBS I HAVE BEEN TO!
I got my feet wet in the lifestyle in Texas. Dallas to be exact, at a lovely club called the 13th Floor, sadly it was shutdown a few years back. As our experience as a couple grew, we traveled all over the State of Texas attending lifestyle parties. Colette's in Dallas is a great club. The Mystery Zone in Houston (The Woodlands) exceeds expectations. Colette's in New Orleans is a MUST visit lifestyle club. Friends was our favorite in Austin (sadly temporarily closed). In Florida; Rooftop, Trapeze, Caliente, and so many more. Denver; Scarlet Ranch is an epically fun night!
THE CONS OF VEGAS (and other places)
But through our adventures we also ran into a lot of sneeze! Parties that totally misrepresented themselves. Parties which were simply fuck-cons for a single male masquerading as a legit party. Tourist traps, cons-jobs, and some that we could not exit fast enough. Parties where it is nothing by a sausage fest and you look up and see a dozen single guys spanking their monkeys on the odd chance that you will invite them because they are at the ready. I was once giving head and I had a guy jack off on my back. I felt a wet drip drip drip... if he hadn't been bigger than me I would have ripped his nut sack off.
So the sad truth about Las Vegas is that there are 16 clubs/parties that I am aware of. I make an effort to visit them all and revisit if I hear of improvement (generally a letdown), and I do my best to visit the new ones that open up. The majority are not legit, they are tourist traps, fuck-cons, fronts for prostitution (pay your cover and you are guaranteed to get laid, often by a BBW retired escort) or the party is an outright, take your money, no refunds rip-off.
The Rule for Vegas is find out where the locals go and that's where you go.
When I first came to Vegas, I was shocked. I expected to find the best lifestyle clubs in the country if not the world. After all - it's Sin City. Instead it is a city where every lifestyle con as noted above can be found and some that were new to me.
NOW THE PROS - WONDERFUL LOCALS!
The people in the lifestyle in Vegas are amazing. They are for the most part; a sexy, forthright, integrous group of people! Not pushy, polite, respectful, and there is something in the water because there are some sexy people in Vegas.
Kasidie, Quiver and SDC all have a strong presence in Vegas with thousands of Vegas residents as members. These are great resources to find clubs, playmates, meet new friends... Getting a membership on one of these is a Smart Move!
The top 3 clubs are excellent venues. Each has things special and unique to their brand and venue. I have mentioned the top 5 parties at various points in this blog.
A common thing I hear from those visiting is that they picked the wrong parties and had a bad experience. Since many are new to the lifestyle, it could be the last time they ever consider a lifestyle gathering.
So I am going to discuss the top clubs and parties in no specific order, but I am putting them into tiers.
The top 2 1, the honorable mentions, and one very special party whose host I adore and most people outside of Kasidie members won't be aware of. I am not stating one is better than the other. The top two without question are Playhouse LV and Whispers.
THE TOP 2 PARTIES 1
Whispers - it's Couples and Solo Ladies only. No single men. 14 out of 16 of the clubs/parties make their money on a model of getting a few couples in and then packing the place with single men. Most come from out of town and elected to come to a swingers club instead of a strip club. Whispers most epic fun is their summer 3-day weekends and the Sunday Afternoon Pool Party. They are also the largest party in Nevada. Their 2021 Halloween party was epic with 411 attending.
Playhouse LV - Nothing but good things to say about Dave & Nicole. They work hard to put on a great party. It's a smaller party, but its fun, erotic and very play-centric. They do allow single men, but they will be vetted and generally hot (speaking from my female perspective). This is a great choice for experienced swingers. While beginners could have a great time there, it would likely be better if the couple was mentally ready for full-swap. It isn't required.
Red Rooster - This is the oldest club in Las Vegas. The original owners passed on (Mike and Chris) who were legends LEGENDS in the lifestyle. The venue has passed to the next generation. They do have a lot of single men. If you goal is a hotwife, gangbang, or MMF threesome, this is your place. In terms of weekday parties - this is the ONLY choice in Vegas. They are open Wed-Sun.
The honorable mentions (no specific order).
Club 5150 - This venue is the most LBGTQ venue and it caters to bi-males. They took over from the previous owner when it was called "The Studio". The venue is nice on the inside and the crew there works hard for their parties. Smallest crowd of the top 5 clubs in Vegas, but if you are a bi male, its a great option.
Purrect LV - Two parts to an evening at this party. The First part is an off-premise party. You meet in a bar (Usually at the Alexis Park Hotel), you socialize (there are always a fair number of single men), the hosts decide who gets an invited to the after party, and then those selected head off for a hotel suite. It can be a very good toe-in-the-water experience because you can attend the first part of the evening and skip the second party (the hotel suite).
Special Mention
BnJ's Private House Parties. They do not make most lists because they usually have only one party a month or one every other month. 1) This is one of the nicest couples in Vegas. 2) Its sexy and well attended, never heard a negative from one of their parties. 3) It is vetted so while single men are allowed, most are know, respected, respectful and polite. There is only one negative which is may not be ideal for newbies. They do expect men to be naked (as in butt naked).
If I didn't mention a party, IT IS NOT BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW ABOUT IT. I left it off the list for a reason.
I also didn't mention the numerous group gatherings, conference, hotel takeovers which come to Vegas every year. The established ones will be a wonderful experience. My personal favorites are Naughty in Vegas - this is done by the same crew who do Naughty in N'awlins (which is my all time favorite event to travel to), Sin City (they are on number 11), The Game (very classy event and travels to several cities), and any of the Kasidie Events are always going to be excellent experiences.
The Game is a combination lifestyle party and ice breaker. It's commonly a two night affair that has a dinner night 1 and the main event night 2. Each lady and man get charms. The ladies wear these on a wrist bracelet and the men on a neck chain. Different charms represent different activities. There are three rounds, each round a new set of charms is introduced taking things to a high level. When an action occurs, the appropriate charm is exchanged. The winners (those with the most charms) are awarded prizes. After the game, the crowd is pretty frisky and using a lot of play occurs.
I would not suggest it for newbies. You can earn a Snowflake charm for just talking or hugging someone. Kissing is the next charm. The groping (feeling each other up), licking nipples, oral sex and the most prized charm is an Eagle which indicates you had copulation (sex). Each charm has a point value, the high score wins.
Weekdays in Vegas are very tough. The locals don't go out so what places are open will have fewer than 100 people attending if even that. Your only options in terms of finding a crowd are Red Rooster (lots of single guys) which is open Wed-Sat, Playhouse Th-Sat evenings. Most of the legit clubs are focused on the weekends during the winter season. Green Door is a tourist trap - a sea of solo men. Sea Mountain is ok, but most likely not very many couples during the week if any.
Wish I had better options for you. Vegas has more scams than actual legit clubs.
How you approach house party is ideal. If you apply that same diligence to lifestyle parties in other cities, clubs, hotel takeovers, and cruises, you weed out a lot of the bad experiences.
Also, just because it is at a hotel, does not mean it is a positive event. If you have read other posts I talk about parties that are fronts for prostitution, those are almost always at a hotel because if they do it too long at a house, it gets raided. Some of the really bad experiences have been at a hotel.
Even the conference style events can go south. A few years back, a group advertised that they were going to host the world record for an orgy. It made the news (a huge no-no), and the County took action. In fairness, it was a stupid move, the company who does this event has since recovered from it and I would certainly attend their events again.
The lesson in this is that you are talking about sex and society. This makes it a big challenge to pick the right options.
If you have any questions in the meantime, don't hesitate to ask. I have a few new post plans for those new to all of this, but summer posts for lifestyle events in Las Vegas.
The pool parties are a lot of fun. Of the two, the Sunday Pool Party is the best attended. The Saturday Pool Party averages around 100 people. Sunday is between 150 and 200 and it is a pretty wild high energy vibe. Sunday is also traveler friendly as there is a luggage lock-up, showers, lockers, and the venue is minutes from the airport. Saturday is fun as well, but its more about getting your tan on.
Great question. Not so much. Vegas is unique. If you were to talk to the top clubs, you would find that they get a lot of out-of-town guests every week and some have a regular out-of-town following. There are bad parties everywhere, but in terms of places where people intentionally con people out of their money, Vegas is the tops for that. I used to live in Texas and the list of clubs that I went to there is long. While I ran into a few house parties that were not my cup of tea, I never ran into anyone who was intentionally scamming people like they do in Las Vegas.
The exception of fuck-cons that I have run into a few times. This is where the party is set up, usually by a guy, who sole purpose is to get laid. I have run into a few house parties where this was the case, run by a couple or solo guy. The difference in Vegas is that its in a hotel, always moving because they do not want the hotel to catch on and they masquerade as the "best swinger party in Vegas" and when you attend, you will find no locals, just wide eyed tourist who are gradually freaking out as the evening goes on.
Just after midnight most couples have left the social areas and moved into the playrooms. Most clubs everyone is hitting the playrooms between 12:00 and 1:00 AM. After an hour or so of play, some are starting to head home.
BUT it also depends on the night. The 3-day weekends, people will go for 2 or 3 rounds and you are leaving the club when the sun is coming up.
If you have any questions in the meantime, don't hesitate to ask. I have a few new post plans for those new to all of this, but summer posts for lifestyle events in Las Vegas.
Not this weekend. They have no parties posted. The clubs worth going to that will be open tonight are:
Red Rooster
Whispers
5150 (Mostly for bi-male couples and solos)
Purrfect LV (Off-premise party)
The rest are scams and tourist traps.
Just after midnight most couples have left the social areas and moved into the playrooms. Most clubs everyone is hitting the playrooms between 12:00 and 1:00 AM. After an hour or so of play, some are starting to head home.
BUT it also depends on the night. The 3-day weekends, people will go for 2 or 3 rounds and you are leaving the club when the sun is coming up.
If you have any questions in the meantime, don't hesitate to ask. I have a few new post plans for those new to all of this, but summer posts for lifestyle events in Las Vegas.
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The hold them at the Artisan Hotel Pool just off the strip. It's a good time and well attended. Well organized. You still have to abide by hotel rules.