The scenario I'm looking to create is to have either a stage or room with a bunch of male voyeurs. I'll pick 1 or 2 or 3 to join me for sexytime while the others watch.

I'd like to do this at a club as opposed to a house party or hotel room for a couple of reasons... First of all, I'd like a sexy party atmosphere that I can can just sit in the corner and soak in while I amp myself up. Also, I like knowing club security is available if someone gets unruly.

My problem is that most swingers clubs try to limit the number of single men, which kinda works against what I want to do. There used to be a club in NC called YKW that had a guys night, when they made it easy for single guys to come, and that worked great for me, but they closed and I haven't found anyplace else that had that.

Does anyone have any suggestions for me? Either in VA, or in one of the bordering states?