A bit of history first: I am super interested in cuckolding and hotwifing. My wife is nervous to say the least. In the past, I’ve gotten her to wear see-through and sexy things to the Spanish Fork Hot Springs, and enjoy seeing guys check her out. With winter, this is difficult.

She mentioned MAYBE being willing to go to a swingers club. Just somewhere that she can dress scantly and others there are consenting to seeing that sort of thing. I think what she’d do best with is just a bar type setting where she could where lingerie or fishnets and respectful guys could come chat with her casually.

I’d also like to raise her comfort level with general sex related things, like being naked or scantly dressed around others and maybe seeing things happen around us to help normalize the lifestyle a bit in her mind.

I know Utah is pretty tough and there’s not much around. Any ideas or suggestions?