We used to look for couples to swap, and we'd always get a lot of interest when we made an ad for it.

One time, we swapped with a couple, and afterwards, my husband said he suspects that the other girl didn't actually want swap at all, and that she was prolly faking it, so that her husband could have a chance to get with other girls.

Since then, he kind of lost interest in swap (maybe if the other girl asks for it)

So we started looking for a situation where the default is that he just watches (fully clothed) while I play solo with a couple (because I still wanna play with couples). I thought this would be easier to find than swap. It's not. It's actually harder to find. I get a lot less interest for that and it's surprising.

I'm guessing that a lot of people pass because they think it's a scheme to trick them into meeting us so we can pressure them to swap? Or maybe they assume I already get a lot of interest from couples and they think they don't have a chance?