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Hey! I'm a 28 year old single trans guy looking for a few kinky FWBs/play partners.

All of my information, what I'm looking for and my kinks are listed below. Please read my entire ad and if you're interested please send me some info about yourself that are NOT just stats. Messages ONLY with stats, "hey" or other small talk WILL be ignored. Read that twice.

Me:

• Financially stable, work full time and generally like to keep a busy schedule between friends, events and work.
• My interests include: EDM shows/raves/festivals, travel, reading, writing, art, fitness/working out, video games, photography, television/movies, camping, fishing, cooking, generally just hanging out and plenty more.
• Emotional independency, self advocacy and communication are absolute key with me.
• Seriously - bonus points if you want to go to an EDM show with me. It's my most recent hyperfixation and I love the music. Not a dealbreaker it's just something I love.
• FTM (no tits, have pussy - if you don't know what FTM is, please google it - please refrain from only hitting me up because I'm trans. I am not here as your bucket list check off or experiment).
• 5'3, 170lbs (down 70lbs from last year and still going)
• Chubby bear bro/daddy type
• Switch & vers but if I'm fucking you then I want to flip fuck at least
• Neg everything, on PrEP - tested regularly
• I do vape and enjoy 420, drinking, p*ppers and some other occasional recreational things but nothing hard and nothing consistently. I care about my health and I'm not the addictive type.
• Conversation gets you everywhere with me. No, I will not meet with you on the fly or 'right now' - I am looking for consistency and connection.
• I will NOT meet without exchanging face pictures.

Looking for:

• Kinky FWB / play partners.

You:

• Please don't be pushy or demanding or act entitled to my time. I am busy and have ADHD - it's not a personal attack if I don't reply immediately. Just keep it interesting and be patient. Please understand my life is just busy and my schedule is usually pretty booked but I will fit you in if it's worth it to me.
• Be hygienic.
• Be willing to be flexible and work around our s/chedules.
• Have your own boundaries and limits. "I'm down for anything" "I'm down for whatever you want" or anything of that variation is a huge red flag to me. Please have an idea of what you want or are at least interested in.

Into (vanilla):

• Receiving oral (and giving but not for long stretches)
• Getting fucked in the pussy (NO anal on me)
• Anal on others (though I prefer flip fuck)
• Body contact, rubbing, dirty talk, mild to wild, longer sessions, hot and heavy
• A lot of kinks, though if we're going to do kinks on the first meet up it needs to be negotiated beforehand (my kinks are listed below.)

Don't message me if:

• You struggle engaging in or holding a conversation
• You're only looking for a quick fuck - if we are going to be starting with kink or sex that isn't necessarily a bad thing as long as it's spoken of, but even then I prefer a longer session to start with and it will by no means be a quick ordeal.

Kinks:

• Please keep in mind that while I am a dominant leaning switch not all of these I am willing to top or bottom for. It just depends on the scenario.
• If it's not on either list it doesn't mean I am or am not into it, just ask me about it. My kink list is fairly long and I'm incredibly open minded, including kinks that are considered more "taboo" - it's pretty hard to surprise me. We're both consenting adults here.
• YES: dirty talk/verbal, exhibitionism/public, groups, CBT, chastity, D/s dynamics, bondage, ageplay/ABDL (including dark ageplay), impact play, consensual non consent/r*pe play, watersports, humiliation, degradation, sensory dep, edging, mind fucks, public, roleplay, tease/denial, domestic servitude, findom, medical play, pup play, free use, power exchange, degredation, etc.
• NO: electricity, tickling (receiving), receiving any sort of feminization or being fetishized for being trans, etc

If you've made it this far, awesome! I'd love to chat and see if we could set something up. Thanks for reading! I will send pictures upon request, though your face pic will get mine.