A tale of honest communication

I have been married to my lovely wife (both in our 50s) for twenty years and we have one son. As he has become older our sex life has had to be curtailed due to the possibility of him catching us at it. Recently he has become more independent, and reliable periods of time when he’s out of the house have opened up opportunities for marital intimacy.

A few years ago my wife was peeing in the bathroom when I had to come in for something and I found myself getting turned on by the scent and the sound into the toilet. I put it to the back of my mind and got on with what I was doing. At first I thought this a one off, but other similar situations caused me the same arousal. I started to find myself looking more and more at porn and erotica where women were peeing on their partners, and getting quite frustrated about my new ‘kink’, and feeling my wife would be disgusted were I to tell her.

About a week or so ago I found Reddit and started seeking out pee groups in the NSFW areas. Realising there were a lot of people both male and female who are turned on by pee play, I made the decision to come clean about this desire with my wife.

Yesterday afternoon our son was out for a while with friends. Finding the opportunity appropriate, I said “I have a confession to make and you’re the cause although unintentionally”. I told her about getting aroused by the sight, smells, sound and thought of her peeing, and had a developed a fetish that was driving me nuts with sexual frustration. She wasn’t super enthusiastic about pee play but not grossed out either, nor is she judgmental about it. She has tentatively agreed to pee on me in the tub at the next opportunity for intimacy. I haven’t told her I want to take some in my mouth, I figure that I can let that happen when we try her peeing on me in the tub. The logistics might even make that an inevitable ‘accident.’

I am so glad I found the balls to talk to her, and I’m excited about what will happen soon. During the same conversation I also asked her if I could rim her asshole, something she expressed discomfort with in the past and she agreed with certain hygiene rules about not putting my mouth near her pussy or mouth until after cleaning up.

Thanks to all on Reddit’s NSFW pee groups who I have interacted with and who’s example emboldened me to communicate my needs to the woman I love.