After leaving a bad relationship in 2022 I TORE through dating apps, mainly looking to casual encounters. Because I was so open about what I was looking for it attracted a lot of attention from men looking to cheat. I screen grabbed some of the messages and never met up with any of them.

Fast forward to the golden age of AI. I found out there are tools that scan profile photos and show you matches for their other social profiles. I ran two of them men I had screenshot and found out their names and saw their wives linked to their social profiles.

It’s been over a year since they messaged me. Should I find and reach out to the wives? I don’t crave drama the way I used to but I do feel strongly that women should always help other women where we can. I’d want to do it to help women that are in the dark about their husband’s activities…mostly because I was cheated on often and had no idea.

Thoughts?