No.

The answer is no.

The only thing we did is allow time to separate us. You made your choices, and I made mine.

You found yourself in an abusive relationship with a child and failed engagement.

You got married recently and although you appear happy, you're miserable.

You work in a different state and pretty much abandoned your son.

Everytime we talk you need something.

Everytime we talk it's all about you.

Everytime we talk you're a victim

Everytime we see each other you project and blame everyone else.

We never got to reconcile the abuse in our relationship

You hit me and started fights. You blocked my car and me from getting in. Everytime we went out, you would start a fight prior and completely ignore me then point me out as the labeled grump.

You flirted with others. You stripped and didn't tell me. You hung out with clientele who became friends. You accepted gifts from them. There was always a man on deck.

You gave me chlamydia in a monogamous relationship. You showed up at my job multiple times with other men.

I wanted to die.

I was younger and stupid, but I was always fighting for the good days. 1 week good, 3 days awful. Etc

Codependency is a bitch. The trauma I've endured is great. You made me terrified of women for 10yrs.

THIS^. What I went through we never discussed it afterwards. You never even asked. Your selective memory says it was too long ago to remember. Gaslighting at it's finest.

Trauma doesn't have a time limit.

You never understood it nor will try.

It's why I have to keep you at a distance and refuse the urge to help you.

Without the hatchet buried, I can never get close to you

It may not even be worth it