Just a few months before, you were searching vigorously on where to apply for higher studies and jobs. You were career-oriented. What happened now? Why are you not reflecting on your career? You know that you are struggling with debt. Why haven't you done anything to change your financial status?

You accept it or not - you are not cut out for temporary fixes in relationships. Hookups and affairs do not seem to work for you. You know that you need a partner at home everyday who will take good care of you and you do likewise to her.

You accept this fact - you are blessed with a family who are unconditional in showing their love. Your SO is the purest soul you can get. You are not giving her what she deserves. When was the last time you had a heart-to-heart chat with her? Your concerns that she may reveal your discussions to her parents are valid. But, do you have a choice here?

Reconcile with yourself. Reconcile with the people around you. Shower love and affection on them. Take good care of them. You are a passionate lover. Your SO has her own way of expressing her love which is not your way. That's fine. Give up and surrender to her will. Don't hold yourself against her. Without compromising with her, would you be able to achieve what you intend to - passion in the bedroom?

Trust that everything will fall in place. Be kind to yourself. Be forgiving. Don't act silly and complicate the already complicated life.