Dear you

It's not that I don't respect you on the basis of being a woman. You being a woman isn't the crux of the issue - "You don't respect me because I'm a woman." You don't draw any connection between my viewpoint of you and you being a woman. There's no basis you've provided for it. This is called a non-sequitur logical fallacy.

The fact is, you repeatedly lied to me about us being exclusive. I don't respect people who consciously lie to me and then try to gaslight me about it afterwards.

Manipulative, selfish conduct is why I don't respect you. Playing the "woman" card is a low blow, and I genuinely respect you even less for pulling that card when it's clear you aren't an honest person.

Just because you don't hold yourself to any kind of respectable standard for your conduct, doesn't mean you need to project it onto me.