Oh I definitely understand where you are cooking from. To answer your questions, no, we are not really worried about running to people we know on the apps. We actually use my accounts (wife)Then I add 1 or 2 pics of me and my husband on there. On the bio I explain that we are looking for new people to hang out with and get to know. That makes the people we know think (we want more friends) 9/10 when people message you, they are going to ask “what are you looking for” then you explain that you’re looking to meet new people and to have lots of fun with. and when you say that also put “and if the chemistry is right we wouldn’t mind and would love to have extra adult fun, but don’t wanna pressure it” I wouldn’t put (We are looking for a unicorn) on the bio it would just scare people away. just don’t pressure it. Most women can tell when it’s the men being extra pushy on it and most people don’t like putting titles on what they are. After that we move to “kik” or “Snapchat” so we all can group chat and get to know each other. You just have to be patient and have really great conversations and hang outs with them. Most of the time when the person opens up they feel more comfortable with you both, then they would want to have the “extra fun”. We met people that never would of thought of being a unicorn because they were looking for (just friends) and turned into it, and we met people that was just looking to be one for us off jump. The important thing is to remember (patience) and (good energy) if you two have great chemistry and personality it wouldn’t be hard. ❤️

No problem. Good luck! 😊