we are a couple very new to the Lifestyle. Husband is 43... Wife is 37. We have very recently included wife's best friend, who is a very attractive 30-year-old Latina/Puerto Rican into our 7-year relationship. We have been friends with our "Unicorn " for the entire duration of our relationship. But she was dating Husbands Cousin for 5 out of the 7 years. During the entire friendship, the Wife and unicorn (Kassy), always secretly played around together... flirting, kissing, playing with titties... but never any sexual contact between the Husband & Kassy.... until abmout 6 Months ago when we had a drunk night & Kassy wanted 2 play with the Wife & asked if husband could join... Wife said yes! Of course! It has always been my (Wifes) fantasy to have a unicorn!! We had that night of fun together, then we had another night all together very recently, about 1 Month ago... since then, Kassy has shown interest in being Wife's Girlfriend & letting hubby join in when we want!! I (Wife) have treated Kassy like my girlfriend by taking her out shopping & spending money on her, taking her out 2 dinner, game nights at home, etc.

Kassy and Hubby have NEVER been ALONE TOGETHER, so we all feel that that is the next necessary step so that we can ALL be comfortable & on the same page... but I'm (the Wife) having a bit of a hard time with this... I mean, it turns me on tremendously to share my man/dick with my best friend... I do WANT that... but it's just the thoughts of my man making another woman feel the way he makes me feel, sexually AND emotionally, is extremely hard for me. But I truly feel that once this happens, it will make the experience sooo much better!! So I'm just curious, is this normal?? & is this the right way to go about this if we want long-term relationship with her??