Hasn’t paid child support in 15 weeks, told me on June 24th “sorry no child suooort this week due to vacation last week, and starting a new job so no child support for a few weeks”. After 8 weeks of waiting I called the child support office, they said “we sent the withholding documents to his employer, should be seeing payments in a couple weeks”. 3 weeks later I called again just to see how things were progressing and they say “hmm. He doesn’t have a valid employer on file”. I think he’s working under the table. I need to find out where but have cut all social ties with him. I know he has an affinity for 20 yr olds tho (he’s 28, he gets older but his gfs are always 20-22), I could find a 21 yr old to chat him up a bit but again, I’ve cut all ties to him and almost all ties to the area he lives in.

He has literally one of the most common names, so googling and stuff isn’t much help. I don’t want to do anything illegal. But also I’m tired of this deadbeat getting away w shit like this lol. (And if anyone is worried about fucking over a good guy, I’m 24 and our son is 10. I could give more examples but I think that might be good enough)

Edit: and he has me and my family and friends blocked on all social media. But even then, I do have an old fb account that isn’t blocked, so I managed to log into that and his profile is pretty private, I can only see when he updates profile/cover photos.