so this is gonna be a bit long, just a warning. I'll try to keep it as short as possible but there's so much that she's done it's hard to not include it all. And yes, I'm aware he needs to grow a backbone.

-brother (35) met this woman (42) back in 2017 . 2 months into the relationship, she gets pregnant (was on BC but also on antibiotics, which canceled out her BC). -brother immediately starts financially assisting her. Rent, groceries, bills, food. Driving her to appointments. Going over to scoop the litter box for her 3 cats. All while working full time, taking care of his own animals/house/etc. Her job wrongly fired her when they found out she was pregnant (she sued, she won't, but spent 85% of the $ on back taxes and didn't give my brother a dime). -fast fwd a few years. Brother buys a house BC the girlfriends house is in a shitty neighborhood and he wants his daughter to grow up in a safer area. She proceeds to fill his house with everything Imaginable. His basement is filled, his upstairs 3 spare rooms are filled, he can barely get around his house without having to move this to use this, etc. She has a laundry basket full of snacks that expired TWO YEARS AGO but she refuses to throw them out. He tried to do it himself and she threw such a fit and lost her mind. She's a hoarder. -she's told people my brother was abusive. The only thing he ever did was throw a half empty water bottle in her direction and it hit a wall. Since then, she's been saying he's abusive. But has also said there were no other incidents besides that one. -she constantly accuses him of cheating. He was on the phone WITH HIS BOSS and she's in the background like, "who's that bitch? Who are you talking to at 7pm? I hear a females voice who is calling you so late? & so on. This goes for ANY female that contacts him and hes never cheated on her. He isn't even allowed to order food from a specific restaurant BC a girl he went on 2 dates with in HIGH SCHOOL works there as the general manager.

I recently found out the following and I'm FUCKING SEETHING. -she has barely paid a fucking dime towards household expenses, bills, etc since she moved in. She has 3 jobs: she works at the daycare my niece goes to, she bartends a few nights a week, and shes a freelance photographer for the Steelers. She makes money. She just spends it on food and Target, the house is FILLLEEDDD with this shit She orders & buys, then never uses. -my aunt bought my brother this really nice mattress when he moved into the house BC he has a really bad back. His gf says he snores, so she kicked him out of the bed and makes him sleep on some dingy couch in the attic. Of his own house. We found out on Easter that she's been making him sleep like that for at least 6 months. My aunt heard that he wasn't even using the mattress she picked out and she was fucking fuming. She didn't buy it for that bitch, yet she's the only one using it.
-she never gets up with my niece or helps with her. She does work in the same room as my niece for daycare but she acts like its just such a chore to give her a bath. My brother does 90% of the chores around the house. She sleeps I'm and does nothing. -she berates him and constantly puts him down. Shes constantly screaming at him that he's a piece of shit, He's fat, He's lazy, He's useless, etc. He's gained some weight due to being heavily depressed (wonder why) and not to be mean, but she still has the same size/shape stomach she did when she was pregnant 4yrs ago so she doesn't really have room to talk. Neither of them lead healthy lifestyles, although my brother recently got a dog and has been taking walks with her. -she punched him in the back of the head a cpl weeks ago. she went to bed and brought my niece w her. My brother thought it'd be nice to sleep w them since all 3 of them haven't slept together like that since she was a baby. He must've been snoring, she woke him up initially by pushing and smacking him. Then she said you're snoring get the fuck out of here you shouldn't be in here I'm trying to sleep etc etc. He was sitting on the edge of the bed, half asleep and then all of a sudden she socks him in the back of the head hard asf and continues to scream and call him names till he left the room. All of this in front of my 4 yr old niece. He said he saw white spots for a minute or two before he could stand up and leave The room. She's a big lady. She can throw a punch.

Now he's tried kicking her out. He told her to get out in July, but she came back. Tried again around the holidays, she came back. He locked the door one night BC she wasn't coming home till 3am and she tried the knob once, rang the ring doorbell once, then left and told everyone she was banging on the door crying and Colin ignored her. She had left her keys at home and didn't tell him to leave it unlocked. They always lock it if she won't be home till after midnight. The camera shows that complete bullshit. She didn't even try to call him to wake him up, she rang the bell once. He was told he'd have to actually evict her to get her out and BC he's paying so much for the house and just life, he really can't afford a lawyer right now.

How the fuck can we get right of her? Or what can I do to just make things so miserable and uncomfortable she just goes?? I told my family she's not welcome in my house. I host most holidays and I'll be fuckin damned if someone treating my family like that's gonna just come over to dye Easter eggs.

My brother has a temper but he's never hit a woman (besides when we'd whoop each others asses as kids). He's all bark no bite. One of those people that needs to vent/bitch/get it out then he's over it and moves on. He's a yeller. I know that upsets her BC her dad was an abusive alcoholic, so yelling triggers her. The problem is, she's the one starting the yelling and arguments, then when he reacts she pulls the "you're just like my dad!" Card. We know this because they have a nanny cam set up to watch the dog (she's a pup and still kinda destructive) and we have access to the feed. we can hear and see everything. Unfortunately, I don't think those videos are saved but I did tell him to start saving them in case he needs them for court/custody. Her throwing things at him was also caught on video.

TL;DR: my brothers gf has become physically and emptionally abusive, taking over his house with her hoarding, not paying any bills while milking his $ dry and refuses to leave. I need to find a way to drive her out.