I saw a post here about it being difficult making friends, and in the same post, the person will say that they approach people randomly to make friends. That’s where you’re messing up. If I was just sitting minding my own business and not intending to be social, I’d be like “wtf, why is this person talking to me all of a sudden?” Y’all have to keep in mind that there are some people who come up to you to spread some weird idea. (Chi Alpha) I don’t know if they still do this but I remember walking to class and had someone trying to pray with me even though I said I’m an atheist. Another time, I was almost late because someone insisted on telling me about the “female version of God”.

If you want friends, JOIN CLUBS! They are MEANT to be social. Stop saying that it’s hard to make friends. I’m quiet and reserved and met the coolest people in my clubs.

And I want to add, especially join clubs that pertain to your major. That way you’ll have friends in your classes too.