The most common question in my chats is how do I turn my wife into a slut who sleeps with other guys. It’s such a personal road to travel I’m never clear on what to share so i thought i could just open up and see if this helps with any of hotwife questions.

To start, going back a couple of years my husband dared me to attend a strip club outing with his friends and dress provocatively. I accepted the dare and both my husband and i were naively blown away by how much attention i received and how it made us feel. His friends and strangers stared, chatted, proposed, begged and touched me throughout the night. Whatever small fire of having a slutty wife that was smoldering inside my husband turned into a raging inferno.

From that night, almost every night without fail, he coaxed me along the path of becoming a hotwife. Although I’ve always enjoyed the attention of men and even flirting with his friends, I put up walls when it came to the idea of actually going out with other guys much less engaging in sexual activities. But over the course of two years, after literally hundreds of nights of pillow talk, rp and porn, something changed inside of me and my husband’s fantasies became my own. Soon I was directing the fantasies and naming the men was fantasizing about.

We started slowly with me dancing with men at the club that lead to heavy flirting and groping. Things escalated after getting completely naked with his friend where we ruled out penetration to make sure we didn’t go too fast but we kissed, touched and brought each other to climax.

But I wanted more. The erotic, pure, carnal sexual energy flipped my sense of pleasure beyond what I thought was achievable. I wanted to be penetrated by other men and realize spiritual consciousness through extreme pleasure.

There have been over 20 men in the past 11 months since my first naughty night dancing with guys in Vegas. I have had sex with his friends (individually and gangbang), I hooked up with an amateur porn star, and I realized I’m into age gap, becoming the sexual teacher for two college guys. There’s been a lot more.

It’s been an amazing ride but not without its pitfalls. My husband has changed in some unhealthy ways. He’s becoming a weaker, less confident version of himself. We are going to drop this lifestyle in 2025 and reconnect as husband and wife.

The LS is definitely not for the faint of heart. Sometimes I think the fantasy phase was better. I think you can have a lot of opinions about this story but here are my two takeaways: 1) you can lead a wife into this LS if you’re patient af and allow her extreme comfort, safety and encouragement but are also accepting if she doesn’t want to escalate. This lead me to, 2) the downsides can be tragic. If you get no further than sexy pillow talk and role play - this may be a blessing. The fantasy will remain hot for both to share while eliminating 100% of the risk. I’ve met other women who have been abused, divorced or things just went bad right away and the couple just is stuck and can’t fix it. Sorry to end this on a dark note…really not my style BUT if you want my advice you need to be 1000% ready for all of it.

Hope someone finds this helpful. I’m available to chat if needed.