Are you happily married? Life is great? Job going well? But somehow you find yourself feeling edgy, bored, lacking something? Missing the excitement of meeting someone new? Same here.

I would like to bring some excitement back into both our lives. Make you feel excited when you receive a notification and recognise the name. This is what I want too.

I’m a 40yr old guy in a long term relationship (18 yrs), no kids, living in North Cardiff. Working IT professional mostly remote, so plenty of time to chat. Very happy for the most part, but a longstanding dead bedroom situation has taken its toll. I don’t want to change my situation or yours, just connect with someone new and move discreetly into a FWB arrangement. Not totally against 1 night stands but not primarily what I'm looking for.

I'm good looking, 6ft 1, stocky build, have a shaved head, bright blue eyes. I'm very laid back and open minded, always want to try new things. Once I warm up I'm pretty funny in a dry, sarcastic way, and good company I think! Film buff, well travelled, enjoy good food and wine, music, trivia, outdoors, all the usual.

Initially chat here, moving to Telegram if we make a good connection and then in real life!

Those who respond with a picture will always get a reply from me.

Speak soon! x