Hi all

I would appreciate some advice from the group for our first club visit. Here’s the context…..

We are a couple who are enjoying our experimentation. This has mostly been around being in new, erotically charged environments together to spice up our own sex, but also lately in helping her explore her bi desires.

Most recently we spent a fun weekend in Bangkok sharing semi-vanilla massages, her first real F-F experience in a Gogo bar, and then culminating with a couples massage which was me and two great ladies all giving her our full attention for 90 min - which she loved.

For me, I’m enjoying her excitement and experimentation and being with her as part of the adventure. For her, she like having me there to feel safe as well as share the experience with me, but she also knows that she doesn’t want to be put into a scenario which she will feel jealous or sad. Going into and after the couples massage we had a great discussion about boundaries and feelings and where it landed is that she was very comfortable with us both playing and my being touched, but probably not more. Doesn’t really want someone else going down on me or my having sex with someone else. Also, she’s very much not interested in playing with another man.

So, obviously we are not after a full swap Experience. That said, she’s super interested in visiting a club while we are in London in a couple of weeks primarily because of the sexual tension and excitement and I think she will be more than happy to play with me where others can see.

I’m very sure she will be interested in playing with another lady if there is attraction. But again, not looking to play with a guy or my own involvement going too far for her comfort.

Our initial research has led us to Our Place 4 Fun, but this is where we could use some advice. If we are not looking for full swap are we going to in the right environment? How about her playing with another lady but the guys not being very involved? Should we be considering another option.

I’ve been to Rio’s before and I know that definitely is not the right place for her at all. The aggressive guys would be a major turn off. We are headed to my favorite German sauna a few days later for naked relaxation which will also be new for her, but I’d like your help trying to make our London adventure as fun, exciting and comfortable for her as possible.

Thanks!