Hello, you lovely deviants,

M34, it pretty much started last year when me and my wife F30 went to Townhouse club in Wirral, it was an amazing experience, it was enough to spark an interest and get us going again this year, earlier this November.

It was absolutely amazing, met some brilliant people that I'd love to bump into again and had some of the best sex in my life. All well and good, I had a blast, but my wife's got a bit of a troubled relationship with sex, she likes the idea of swinging and going to a sex club, jealousy is not the problem, it's just that she doesn't enjoy casual sex.

Herein lies the problem, I felt so comfortable and confident to talk freely, initiate and have amazing sex with others, I would go back there in a heartbeat because I loved it, but my partner wouldn't be so keen as the second time around left her feeling overwhelmed and not quite right.

Have any of you had a similar experience or know how to tackle the problem? If so, please give me a shout ... message either way, I love meeting like minded people.

Cheers.