Honest opinions please. Me and my bf of 15 years started swinging around Feb time this year. He was up for clubs, couple swapping, solo meets and mfms. It was great. I have had a couple of solo meets, we’ve met a couple of couples but social only as he didn’t want to play with them and we’ve had a few mfms. He has set boundaries for how they come across, can’t be taller than him, can’t be in better shape than him etc etc Fast forward to now, he will only do mfm with certain men who fit his boundaries (as mentioned above). I remind him I need to also enjoy myself as I’m the one who is doing stuff to the other man as well as him in the mfm. I enjoy speaking to them and building a bit of tension and sharing photos etc. I am not allowed to speak to the man privately and we make group chats so my bf can see what is being said etc. I’ll probably get lots of hate but I want to be able to enjoy the swinging experience and it’s becoming such a chore because it so “strict”. I don’t really know why I’m posting this I just don’t really know what to do. I don’t want to stop swinging, I just want more. I look at other couples profiles and they just seem to be on the same page with it all get me and my bf couldn’t be any further away! Any advice?