Been ghosted a few times already so decided to hell with it, might as well make my own post. I was hesitant given how many guys post here, figure i'll get lost in the crowd but you miss all the shots you don't take, right?

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Some basic info first, hi my name's Mike. I'm a bit of a shut in, 6ft. long hair and beard, a few tattoos, i can be convinced to go out for days in the city or weekends away but generally i don't like to travel. I have 2 pet cats, and i'm atheist so if any of those are dealbreakers, i'm sorry. What i do love to spend my time on is nerdy as hell hobbies. I love D&D, have an entire bookshelf of different games and systems, and cabinets of minis. Video games are the other passion in my life and unless i'm stopped i will talk for hours about the lore or mechanical design or this game or that game, the Souls series and Warcraft series in particular.

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I'm also an aspiring writer, but ADHD is a bitch and never lets me focus enough to get much done. In general i'm a very bubbly, jokey guy who is a big softy. I'm prone to being overly cuddly or affectionate. My idea of a good date night is curling up on the sofa, ordering some take away and either playing some games or marathoning a few movies.

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What i'm looking for isn't a hookup or FWB situation, although i do have my kinks. I'm a switch, trying to learn to be more of a dom.

But what i want is something committed, romantic, someone just as happy to sit and talk about stories or philosophy or music for hours as they are to be in bed with. I'm sappy, i know, but i want someone i can stay up late with and wake up, kiss good morning and have a coffee with.

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I'm gonna wrap up with a few admissions that i know will turn people off but might as well be up front, make things simpler. First, i'm poly. I already have a partner and we're very happy together but it's a ldr so we talked about bringing in someone closer to home. Second, i'm a plus sized guy. I am working to lose weight but, worth mentioning. Last one is embarrassing and a source of insecurity but, i'm below average where it counts. Obviously that's not the most important thing but generally people on here seem to be looking for hung guys and that simply isn't me. I have plenty else to offer in the bedroom but yeah, expecting that to be a dealbreaker for plenty of people in and of itself. Just saves time getting it out now, right?

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I'll be honest, it's scary being on this side of making a post like this and it's why i've not posted til now. There's been this sense of "Why would anyone take an interest in me when there's plenty of guys out there better?" but...fuck it. Let's roll the dice and see what happens.

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Thank you for reading and take care.