Hi Reddit,

I'm A., living in West Yorkshire with my partner and three cats, and have another partner who is a huge part of my life. Open to all connections with a hope for something long-term, and very emotionally available -- no age gaps of over a decade each way though, please.

Because I have a tendency to ramble, here's me in bullet points:

• healthcare worker, so I have a huge heart but also a dark sense of humour and gross stories if you're down.

• red panda lover. I got to hand feed some recently, best birthday present ever.

• lover of long, potentially too long, walks -- Haworth, Three Peaks, Aysgarth Falls, etc. Yorkshire spoils us. Better yet if there's a decent pint and a hot tub at the end.

• nerd, but not in the Marvel/DC sense. I go to gigs most weeks, help organise a board game night for my local poly group, love to do crosswords and word puzzles with my partners, love 80s/90s scifi, karaoke, book club, learning languages (French and Hebrew at the moment), and being political without letting the weight of it drag me down as I believe there's still a huge amount of good in the world.

• cooking/feeding people is my love language.

• lover of quiet pubs or bars, and a decent pub quiz (speed quizzing can get in the sea!)

• neurospicy, but I mask VERY well. Maybe too well. This can occasionally cause burnout and overwhelm but I'm learning how to embrace my authentically weird self and feeling happier now than ever :)

• if we date, I will a) quote Frasier at you, b) offer to make a playlist but always get too distracted, and c) bring baking products and homemade hot sauce to dates.

Have face; will travel:

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