Hi all! I am a bisexual woman and I have had a lot of sex with men, but have not had sex with a woman before. This is mainly because my two serious relationships have been with men, and after that hook ups were easier and more familiar to do with men.

However, lately I have been talking to a couple girls and things are getting a bit more heated. The problem is that I am absolutely terrified because I haven’t ever slept with a woman. I have seen porn but most lesbian porn is geared to men so I don’t think that’s a great metric. I have a couple questions I’m hoping to get some clarity on.

-How do i bring up that I’m a “virgin” with women? I’ve never had to have the virgin convo w men because I lost it early on

-Is scissoring as prominent as it is in porn? Or is that like a myth

-is sex mainly oral stimulation?

-Are toys normal for hookups?

-How does protection work?

-What do I need to know to avoid looking stupid?

-What do you wish you would’ve known/pls give me tips.

I know these will differ between people but I really am just looking for other people’s experiences to get a better understanding. I’m literally so scared.