I’m thinking of trying something and wondering if any woman has done this before.

I am newly single and have a handful of well endowed lovers.

I love kissing, sucking, being sucked, nipples and clit, being fingered and even fisted.
My level of arousal increases the longer the foreplay lasts.
I frequently tell lovers that I love to be teased, denied, that it just makes me more excited and wetter, however, I am usually disappointed at how soon a guy wants to do PIV (penis in vagina)

I enjoy it, but it doesn’t increase my arousal like foreplay does.

I’m considering telling every one of my friends that for some period of time (like a month?), there will be no PIV.
They can still orgasm, either through mutual masturbation, a blow job, maybe even anal if I’m super turned on.
It’s like pushing a reset button on the sexual relationship.
I genuinely care and have deep relationships with these guys. They seem to care about me too. I’ve been a pleaser all my life prior to getting divorced about a year ago. So it’s hard for me to deny them, but I think if I just were clear about not relaxing my boundaries, some creativity, intimacy, kink (which I can never get enough of) will happen as a result.

Thoughts?