20F. This is something I think about a lot, and it weighs heavily on my mind. It’s regarding pubic hair. I love my bush because it’s natural, beautiful, and feels nice. I love the aesthetics of being bare as well, but it’s actually quite uncomfortable for me due to the friction and my sensitive skin. Not to mention that there is too much time, money, energy, and maintenance that goes into staying bare for me to personally find it worth it.

Everyone has preferences and they have the right to those preferences. However, I’m worried about meeting someone who I really like and connect with on all levels, but my bush being a problem for them in terms of oral sex only. Everything else would be fine, but oral sex would not happen because I have hair. I’m obviously not going to force them and it’s understandable, but oral sex is really important to me. What am I supposed to do in a situation like this? Give up the relationship? Give in and shave?

It’s gotten to point where before I hookup with anyone, I let them know beforehand that I have a bush, so casual encounters aren’t really a concern of mine. It’s more for relationships that don’t start off sexual and it comes up later.

I could really use some advice on this.