Hi! Hello! 24 your old girl here! I feel so weird writing this but I just need reassurance or maybe validation? But I have an incredibly strange relationship with sex. I’m not quite a virgin but I’m also not all that experienced. I’ve only been with about three guys and each time I was some level of drunk . The consent of these interactions are in question as I’m not too sure what to call them. Sex or....you know. I feel like I don’t know what I’m doing and I’m terrified of going to bed with someone because I don’t want to be bad or seem like I don’t know what I’m doing (which I absolutely don’t). But at the same time I’m horny all the time and I’m constantly seeking out men to have sex with just to back out last minute because I’m scared. What I’m asking is... is this normal? Should I be scared to have sex? Or scared that I’ll be bad at it? How can I pretend to be confident in bed when I really have no clue how to please someone else? Help please?