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I wanted to stop but didn’t know how to say it
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During phone sex with my boyfriend, I was enjoying it at first but then it was getting to the point where it wasn’t feeling good anymore. I usually like it rough but I wasn’t feeling it today and I had came so many times that I couldn’t cum anymore.

I said it’s getting too much once and I don’t think I can keep going but he told me don’t stop. I wanted to say I want to stop but I didn’t know how to. I felt like I had to keep going but I wasn’t enjoying it and I just wanted it to stop

He could tell I was upset after and we talked it through a bit but not enough. He wanted to cheer me up and make me happy. But I just feel upset still and used, even though it’s not his fault. I have trouble saying no or stop, even though I feel so safe with him

Should I talk to him more about how I feel? I feel upset and violated and hurt but it’s my own fault. I couldn’t speak up

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I mean you have to talk about him with this cuz this is a serious situation. And if you can't respect that then that's kind of a red flag. I would probably go about finding a safe word our conversation that he knows if you bring it up it's time to stop so you don't have to have that talk about why you want to stop.

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